What is Your Destiny?

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2011-01-14T10:37:00.000-08:00

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Love, Light and Success,
Wendi

HEALTH and WELLNESS Affirmations

2010-02-15T05:47:00.000-08:00

It is NEVER too late to adopt a healthy lifestyle. The key is to take baby steps and just get started.

If you already eat healthy but don't exercise then start a walking program and BUILD from there. If you eat healthy and exercise then maybe it is time to take it up a notch. You know exactly where you are because you have an INNER knowing telling you exactly where you are and where you need to TWEAK it. How do you get started, push past limits, and claim your right to HEALTH and WELLNESS?

Start today and DECLARE it. Make a decision and then commit to taking one SMALL step each and every day.

Here are few AFFIRMATIONS to add to your tool box. They can help you ALIGN your thoughts with words so that you will then
become empowered to take ACTION. Wishing you a lifetime of Health and Wellness!

I have the power to control my health and my well-being.

I make good decisions about what I eat and make choices that will keep me my body lean, strong and healthy.

I have abundant energy, vitality and well-being.

I am healthy in all aspects of my life, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

I am powerful and fearless because I know that I control my own body.

I focus on the positive aspects of my body and honor, respect, and love all that I am.

I am filled with energy to do all the daily activities in my life.

I am in control of my mind, body and spirit at all times.

I love, nurture and care for my body and it cares for me.

Every cell in my body is healed, cleansed and purified.

Wendi Blum
P: 954-214-5649
http://www.wendiblum.com

Feeling Groovy

2010-01-17T05:02:00.001-08:00

Ever have one of those "off" days when things just are in a complete a total funk? How do you find your groove and get back on track?
How do you shake off the blues? First and foremost, know that EVERYONE has these days. Yes, even the happiest people find themselves experiencing a humdrum day where they just can't shake this feeling. Feelings of doubt, fear, frustration, and loneliness start to creep in and you question yourself. Am I good enough? Am I making the right decisions?

The moment you feel it coming on...It is time to TAKE ACTION. Let's say you get off the phone with a friend or colleague and you feel "blah" or "upset". Immediately, stop what you are doing and RE-ADJUST your mindset by saying an affirmation or sitting in silence releasing and letting go of that feeling. Assign the feeling to something you can visualize like a balloon or kite and simply watch as you let it go into the air and float AWAY.

Learning techniques that work when these feeling sneak up on you is critical. Don't wait until it is raining outside to fix your roof.

Wishing you a ray of sunshine...in the middle of every storm,
Wendi Blum

P.S. I want to share MANY more valuable techniques, tips, and tools~ so I just formed "THE BUTTERFLY CLUB" where I will be sending out daily, weekly, and monthly downloads that include affirmations, meditations, videos, journals, and many more GIFTS to each one of our members. Come join us TODAY by CLICKING the link- to your left "THE BUTTERFLY CLUB"

Living Your Truth

2010-01-11T17:07:00.000-08:00

Are you? If this was your very last day on earth and you looked back, would you be able to say you lived your truth?

Do you feel comfortable in your own skin...Do your clothes feel right...Are you totally aligned with your career, spouse and friends?

When you are aligned with your truth... you feel like letting out a big sigh....Ahhhhh (life is good) but when you aren't then you want to let out a big sign that sounds more like Ahhhhkkkk (what am I doing?).

We all are familiar with these feelings but we either choose to ignore them or use them to propel us to a higher place. Remember- you can run but you can not hide. Those feelings keep surfacing again and again and eventually show up as back pain, a headache or some sort of chronic illness. So maybe it's time...

The truth will set you FREE!

P.S. I want to share MANY more valuable techniques, tips, and tools~ so I just formed "THE BUTTERFLY CLUB" where I will be sending out daily, weekly, and monthly downloads that include affirmations, meditations, videos, journals, and many more GIFTS to each one of our members. Come join us TODAY by CLICKING the link- to your left "THE BUTTERFLY CLUB"

Wendi Blum
Live Your Truth Publishing

Abundance Affirmation

2010-01-03T15:54:00.000-08:00

Can you strengthen your money consciousness?
By aligning your thoughts about finances with your feelings about them, you are able to attract unlimited financial blessings into your own life.

There is plenty of greens stuff out there- you just need to tap into it if you desire more of it.

Read this affirmation right before going to sleep each night and again first thing in the morning.

I attract ABUNDANCE in every area of my life~
I have UNLIMITED resources and money is PLENTIFUL~
Money FLOWS easily into my life and
I am tapped into the INFINITE supply of money energy~
I attract money CONSISTENTLY and EASILY~
I love the feeling that financial FREEDOM gives me~
I SHARE my resources with others and generously donate, contribute, and
GIVE my money to those that are in need~
I have many SOURCES of income flowing directly to me~
I am surrounded by financial RESOURCES in all areas of my life~
I enjoy the FEELING of manifesting abundance~
I POSITIVELY receive the monetary gifts the Universe provides for me~
Everything I touch turns to GOLD~
I happily spend money on others and LOVE the feeling of being able to do so~
I am GRATEFUL that I attract unlimited financial resources~

Wishing you Abundance, Prosperity and Wealth,
Wendi Blum
Author of Your Life Your Destiny
www.wendiblum.com

See the End Result First

2009-12-20T09:45:00.000-08:00

The feeling of health produces health, the feeling of wealth produces wealth.

When you create the FEELING.. the rest will follow...SEE the end result first...REALLY FEEL it and then fill in the "how to" later ~
This is so powerful and I have experienced this over and over again in my own life. You don't even have to know or understand the steps involved to produce the results that you want.

Our minds do not know the difference between something that has actually happened or something we just imagined happened. They both produce the same chemicals in our bodies and produce the same results.

You start by visualizing your heart's desire and then bring in all your senses...see it, feel it, hear how it would sound, smell it, and taste it. Hold on to those thoughts and craft every part of experience. Be with those thoughts...soak them into your core...every cell of your body. First see them as if you are observing them happening (third person) and then transition so that you are seeing it happen from your own perspective (first person).

Feel LUCKY
Feel EMPOWERED
Feel LOVE
Feel JOY
Feel BLESSED!!

May all your dreams come true.
Create your DESTINY.
See it, feel it, LIVE it!

Namaste,
Wendi
http://www.wendiblum.com

Reverse Thinking

2009-12-18T05:01:00.000-08:00

What if most of what we have been taught is completely wrong? What if things were actually reverse?

Think about this. Meditate on this. Ask yourself this question. What if my thoughts are tainted, biased, or completely wrong?
Once we consider this possibility, then a space opens up to allow "truth" to flow into our being. Without the opening we stay
stuck in a very limited and small square but once we crack open the door then the whole universe becomes available to us.

We see things we didn't see before, we hear things on a different level and we EXPAND.

2010 is going to be OUR year! We are going to crack open all the possibilities, make our own path, and create a NEW YEAR that is going to be EXTRAORDINARY. Oh...and I am going to be able to do a handstand too!

Believe...Create...Share
Wendi
http://www.wendiblum.com

Courage

2009-12-14T06:14:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010-

Just seeing the word "courage" can trigger those thoughts, feelings, and give you a extra dose just when you need it most.
Do you know how much power is hidden within each and every one of us? We just need to use effective tools that allow us to tap into our own resources.

You may just want to write out the word "courage" and read it every morning when you wake up. You may want to post the word "courage" on a stick-it note and post it on your computer screen or you may want to post it in your car.
Whenever you feel the opposite feeling "fear" - call forth the feeling of "COURAGE". Ask it to replace the old feeling and then stand in stillness and allow the new feeling to replace the unwanted one.

Inhale the new feeling- COURAGE and then exhale the old feeling- FEAR.

Visualize the new feeling being released and expanding outward throughout your body. See the old feeling leaving your body and dissipating.

You are POWERFUL, COURAGEOUS, FEARLESS and POWERFUL.
CLAIM IT!

☮ ❤ ॐ Love, Light & Peace ☮ ❤ ॐ
Wendi
http://www.yourlifeyourdestiny.com
http://www.wendiblum.com
954-993-1211

The Power of ONE

2009-12-09T04:22:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010-

Do you know how much power YOU have to impact the life of another person? Yes...YOU and you alone can change the direction of a person's life and the direction of our entire planet. YOU could be the tipping point.

You may not even know in your lifetime all the lives you touch or the single life that YOU inspired but does that really matter?

I am simply amazed at how many times I hear a story about the ONE conversation, the ONE sentence, the ONE action, that changed the course of some one's life.

Simply blown away... so don't ever underestimate the POWER you have to make a difference because YOU hold the golden key to change, help, influence, and inspire every person YOU come into contact with.

The power of ONE even translates to the power of ONE single butterfly as it flutters it's wings. This single act can be the tipping point and is referred to as "The Butterfly Effect". The single flutter of a butterfly's wings can set off an atmospheric chain reaction and bring about a tsunami or prevent one. This is an universal law and in your heart YOU already know this.

The time has come to consciously use this truth known as the "butterfly effect" to co-create a new beginning for our lives as we move into 2010.
Use the power of ONE...your one small act of kindness, generosity or compassion just might be the tipping point.

Believe...Create...Share

Wendi
http://www.wendiblum.com
954-993-1211
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Finish Strong

2009-12-02T03:25:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010-
When you combine "FINISH " with "STRONG" you create a powerful intention that says "I have incredible strength and will use it to achieve excellence and drive SUCCESS". Let's finish 2009 strong and have the wind behind our back on Jan 1, 2010.

Regardless of what came before or what has yet to come, what matters most right now is how I choose to respond to the challenge before me. The choice is mine and I choose to Finish STRONG- Dan Green

Ask yourself these questions? Am I doing my best? Am I living a life without regrets? What can I do better?
Reflect on these 8 key principles throughout the end of the month and IDENTIFY areas of strength and areas you may need to improve on. Life is not going to wait for you...the time is NOW to focus, dedicate, and enhance your life- FINISH STRONG!

1.) Courage- Most of us have far more COURAGE than we ever dreamed we possessed. Dale Carnegie

2.) Faith- The only things that stands between a person and what they want in life is the will to try it and the FAITH to believe it is possible.

3.) Belief- You'll see it what you BELIEVE it. - Dr. Wayne Dyer

4.) Attitude- It's not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters- Epictetus

5.) Commitment- Keep on going, and the chances are that you will stumble on something, perhaps when you are least expecting it. I never heard of anyone ever stumbling on something sitting down-Charles Kettering

6.) Purpose- The secret to success is consistency of purpose- Benjamin Disraeli

7.) Discipline- Nothing will work unless you do- John Wooden

8.) Risk-Only those who will risk going too far can possible find out how far they can go- T.S. Eliot

Remember "Effort only fully releases its reward after a person refuses to quit"- Napoleon Hill
Nobody who ever gave his best ever regretted it! George Halas

May each one of you FINISH the year STRONG!
Wendi
954-993-1211
http://www.wendiblum.com

Focus

2009-11-29T08:52:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010-
Only 32 Days Left-

Have you ever noticed that when you try really hard to avoid something... it seems to happen? The key here is that you are focusing on something and the universe doesn't know the difference or the reason why...so it gives it to you. The more you resist...the more it persists.

The key here is to focus on what you want and NEVER what you don't want. Plain and simple.
So first thing in the morning...set your intention for the day. Focus on what you want, not what you don't want. Throughout your day keep your thoughts aligned with your morning intentions and right before you go to sleep set your intention for the next day.

As we wind down the year...begin to focus on what you want for 2010. See it, then FEEL the feelings associated with your desire and bring in all your senses. Let the experience penetrate through your entire body as if it is already happening.
Focus on perfect health, prosperity, peace, wealth, and divine guidance. Imagine and feel it.
Remember, what you focus on expands.

☮ ❤ ॐ Love, Light & Peace ☮ ❤ ॐ
Wendi
http://www.wendiblum.com

Gratitude List

2009-11-25T19:07:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010-
Have you ever made a list of all the things you are THANKFUL for?
If not, today- Thanksgiving- is the perfect day to start!
Grab a piece of paper and a pen and see how many things you can come up with.

Here is my own LIST of 11 things I am most GRATEFUL for-(11 is my lucky number)

1.) GOD - I am fortunate to be able to dedicate my life to being of service.
2.) Family- I am incredibly blessed to have my children, my husband and my extended family - to be surrounded by love.
3.) My work- I am passionate about what I do and love my profession.
4.) Health- I am very fortunate to feel good and be healthy .
5.) Nature- I love being outside...the beach, the trees, the mountains...I am always in awe and appreciate all of nature's beauty.
6.) Friends- I am incredibly grateful to be surrounded by the most amazing people.
7.) Yoga- I love all the healing benefits of yoga- physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
8.) Travel- I am so grateful for all the wonderful places I have been to and will see in my future.
9.) Teachers- I am so thankful to all the wonderful teachers who have shared their wisdom, insight, and guidance.
10.) Books- I love reading and am so appreciative of all the great books that continue to keep showing up.
11.) Food- I really enjoy the experience of eating food that is healthy for you and tastes good too.

I continue to be amazed at how the Universal laws always apply- The more you are GRATEFUL...the more you have to be grateful for. What you focus on...EXPANDS.

Wishing you a HAPPY THANKSGIVING. A day of celebrating our many GIFTS and BLESSINGS that have been bestowed to us throughout the year. Even the gifts that come disguised as obstacles and challenges because inside those experiences we are given an OPPORTUNITY to learn some of life's greatest lessons.

I am humbly so Grateful, Thankful, and Appreciative to each one of you!
I am TRULY BLESSED!

Wendi
http://www.yourlifeyourdestiny.com

It Boils Down to Feelings...

2009-11-24T05:03:00.000-08:00

COUNTDOWN TO 2010-- 28 days left-

We think we want possessions, a relationship, or a particular job but what we really want is the feeling we associate with each one of those things.

It is time to REFLECT back on 2009 and take the time to write down the areas of your life you would like to improve. Start looking at each one and write them down. Then take it one step farther and write down the feeling attached to each one.

So if in 2009
-You were in an unsatisfying relationship- (feeling lonely), heading into 2010 you want a satisfying relationship- (want to feel loved)
-You lost money in real estate or other financial investments- (feeling fearful), heading into 2010 you want to make better financial decisions (want to feel secure)
-You were unhappy at work or in your profession ( feeling unsatisfied), heading in 2010 you want to find a more suitable job or start a new profession (want to feel fulfilled).

You need to know where you want to go and examine it closely so you can design and create a plan to get you there. Anyone who puts this off is going to live a life of regrets later- PLAN 2010 NOW!

The most important thing about goals is having one...-Geoffrey Abert

Believe...Create...Share
Wendi
www.wendiblum,.com
954-993-1211

Contrast

2009-11-24T04:41:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010-

Have you ever noticed that right in the middle of a really great experience something extremely challenging will appear out of blue?
Yeap, something really good and something really unpleasant is happening at exactly the same time.
I noticed this pattern in my own life in my twenties when the same year I was getting married my Dad was also dying of cancer.
Contrast is necessary and these experiences happen to every one of us.
Without experiencing the "bad" stuff you would have no reference, no way to distinguish the "good" stuff. One is nothing without the other so therefore both must exist.
Opposites teach us some of the strongest and most profound lessons in life. We usually can figure out what we don't want before we can figure out what we do want.
As you have these experiences start to ask...What am I suppose to learn from this? How can I become a better person? These extreme patterns exist and it is how we process and grow from them at the end of the day that is going to determine whether we live a charmed life or a miserable one (hmmm....once again two extremes but this one you actually get to choose)

Wishing you a Blissful day!
Wendi

The 5 Questions

2009-11-18T05:18:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010

Who, What, Where, When and How. If you sense that something is missing in your life but not exactly sure what it is then start by asking questions that start with these big 5. Remember, you will never find the answer to a question you never ask.

So what exactly does that mean? If you start by asking these types of questions -your life will shift:
1.) Who am I? Who do I want to be? Who are the most important people in my life?
2.) What do I really want? What do I need to do today to accomplish my goals? What steps do I need to take?
3.) Where do I need to go to today (physically, mentally, spiritually)?
4.) When do I need to......?
4.) How am I going to .......?

As you approach the end of the year and start preparing for 2010, it is time to roll up your sleeves and dig inside your heart and soul to determine who you really are and what you really want out of your life.

Let's finish the year strong and build momentum heading into 2010!

Wendi

Clarity, Vision and Focus

2009-11-17T04:32:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 48-

Are you crystal clear about your goals? If you don't know where- exactly where- you are going then you are never going to get there. As we approach the end of the year it is time to get really serious about our goals.

Time to go get a 2010 calendar if you haven't already and start planning NEXT year right now. In the past, I always made my New Year's Resolutions on Jan 1st. Almost everyone does. Ask yourself what sets the top 10% apart from the other 90%. Be part of the 10%- Plan your 2010 right NOW!

I keep one large journal and list all my New Year's resolutions, every year, in the same journal. It is enlightening to pull out the book and compare one year after another. You get to see the whole picture that way. I have kept this book for 5 years and almost everything in my journal came true. Writing down your goals and getting clarity around what they are will help guide you towards them. It is a critical first step that you can't skip.

We are not going to wind down and disregard the last month of the year as a time when "nothing gets done" because of the holidays. Let's reverse it and get laser beam focused.

Non-Judgment

2009-11-09T07:40:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 45

How many times do you compare yourself to someone else? Do you ever catch yourself making a judgment about another person? We all do it, but can we stop?

It really all starts with becoming mindful and paying attention when it happens. Perhaps someone looks very different, has a different kind of lifestyle or personality- if you become aware of those thoughts as they creep in then you have the chance to make a conscious choice about the direction of those thoughts.

Once you make the commitment to dismiss judgement from your life, then you can practice different techniques to find one that sticks. Personally, I like to send love and blessings to the other person or situation. Even if I see someone who is behaving unkindly I remind myself that I can not see what lies beneath the surface and just send blessings their way.
When I catch myself going off course like we all do, I turn inward and ask for guidance and strength.

It is time to practice patience, practice acceptance and practice purifying our thoughts as we move closer to living our best lives together in peace and harmony as ONE.

The Subconscious Mind

2009-11-09T07:39:00.003-08:00

Countdown to 2010-Day 44-
You can bring unlimited power, wealth, health, happiness, and peace into your life if you can tap into your subconscious mind.
How can you learn the right techniques and gain insight into your deeper mind?

First, you have to expand your conscious mind and sharpen your awareness. You must realize that although you have only one mind- two distinct functions exist. Next, you become mindful of the individual steps, techniques, and processes that are available to help you tap into your subconscious mind. One of my favorite books is The Power of the Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy. He shares lots of great information and practical tools to use.

You plant seeds (thoughts) into your subconscious mind all day- and you get to decide what they are. Based on your habitual thinking you create your reality. If you consciously replace all negative thoughts with positive ones then you begin to reprogram your subconscious mind.

This will take a serious commitment on your part and it is work that needs to be practiced throughout the day- everyday. Every time you start to make a negative statement if you can catch yourself and reverse it, then you will start to see an amazing shift in your life.

Within your subconscious mind lies infinite resources and all the answers. If you think good thoughts, good will follow.

Believe...Create...Share
Wendi
954-993-1211

Meditation

2009-11-09T07:39:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010-Day 47-

Do you have a daily meditation practice? It is called a "practice" for a reason. Like anything else, the more you do it, the better you become at it and mediation is no different.

The single most powerful tool that I personally use in my own life is meditation. Of course, there are so many different interpretations but if you can sit quietly without any distraction for as little as 15 minutes at a time you will receive enormous benefit.

I can immediately sense if someone has a meditation practice or not by the way they carry themselves and the energy that bounces off of them. People that meditate have a peaceful aura and seem to be more grounded.

Meditation is something I crave and look forward to each and everyday. You will grow to love the experience too.

If you find that you make excuses like you don't have time to meditate then that only means that you need it that much more.
Push through the resistance and start today. Your world will change and become fuller, richer, clearer and more rewarding.

Believe...Create...Share

Wendi
954-993-1211

Congruency

2009-11-09T07:37:00.002-08:00

Countdown to 2010-Day 43-

Do your thoughts match your feelings, align with your words and consistent with your actions? You know if they do because your life is balanced and has a certain rhythm that feels just right.

If things are not lining up the way you planned it may be time to take a look at what area needs work. You can think the right thoughts but without the matching feeling you won't get the outcome you desire. Furthermore, if you have your thoughts, feelings, and words lined up but don't take action then you will also fall short.

As you fine tune your life's master plan, remember to take a close at your alignment. Remember, your car can still go from one location to the other but if it is out of alignment than the ride is not nearly as smooth as it could be.

Imagination...Inspiration...Insight

Wendi
954-993-1211

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The Power of Prayer

2009-11-09T07:37:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 42-

I didn't always dedicate time each and every day to prayer but I certainly do now. I sorta blend my meditation and prayer time together and do them both as often as I can throughout the day.

Morning is an extremely powerful time and regardless of how hectic your life is, this is the time to make time. It is my belief that there just can't be any cutting corners here. I choose to start my prayer time as soon as I feel myself waking up and way before I get out of bed. I quietly say 5-15 minutes of prayers to myself and then get up for my "official mediation".

I start with something like; Thank you for this glorious day. With love and gratitude I ask the Divine to guide and protect me. Shield me and my loved ones with love, light, and peace throughout the day. Guide me throughout the day and lead me in the direction of the greatest and highest good for all. Show me where to go, show me what to do, show me what to say and to who. Then I say a special prayer for individuals in my life that are in the midst of difficult challenges and I send love and blessings to all people around the world, humanity as a whole, and our entire planet.

As I continue my day, if things get a little dicy then I quietly pull my car over, shut the door in my office, or find a park bench and spend 5 minutes reconnecting with a simple prayer asking for strength, guidance, and clarity.

I believe that prayer should be part of our daily practice.

Believe...Create...Share
Wendi

Non-Attachment

2009-11-09T07:35:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 41-

You come here with nothing and you leave with nothing. The dash in between becomes the story of your life.

Our bodies are on loan to us so we can have individual experiences and learn our lessons while we are here. Part of that experience is the ability to own material objects We are really just borrowing them temporarily and sooner or later must let go of them. Our purpose is not to possess or collect these things. When we de-tach from all the stuff, the materials things lose their power and we get in touch with the power inside of us.

Once you melt away the desire to collect and posses material things, then you become free of other stuff too. You release all of those thoughts which creates new space to add thoughts of joy, peace, and compassion for others. The old thoughts leave you feeling empty and unsatisfied once the initial high wears off. The new thoughts bring a sense of freedom and fulfillment. It is not easy to get there but you can.

I started a practice many years ago that I continue to this day. Whenever someone tells me they love something I own, I give it to them. I also gave away most of my possessions once my youngest son left for college and decided at that point to only own what I actually needed- 2-3 coffee cups, towels, etc. An amazing thing happens once you get rid of all that "stuff". You gain clarity and focus in all other areas of your life.

Non-attachment also relates to the expectations for our lives, the wants and desires of other people , and for specific outcomes in general. We can set an intention, say a prayer, and take action but then you have to let go and detach from the end result. If we get wrapped up in the future, then we are no longer living in the present moment.

I recently became certified as a yoga teacher and was intrigued with the official definition of "yoga". The meaning of yoga is non-attachment. It is my desire that each one of you will experience this. I know I want to keep this sacred meaning front and center in my own life.

Namaste,
Wendi

Conscious Eating

2009-11-08T19:02:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010-Day 40-

Do you really think about the food you eat ? Where does it come from and what impact do your choices really have? You know intellectually what you should be eating but you block out the information so you can justify your food decisions.

The time has come to finally think about the food we eat; each bite...at every meal. Time to think about where our food comes from, how it is made and what the labels actually say.

Think about the saying "You are what you eat". Every choice that you make will either take you closer to your health goal or further away. On top of that, your food choices effect the entire planet. So instead of mindlessly eating, maybe it is time to take a serious look at what we eat and start making choices that are good for the environment, good for your health, and good for your soul.

Believe...Create...Share
Wendi

Quieting The Mind

2009-11-08T06:00:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 39

Preparing the mind so that you can uncover your HEART’S desire and let your true DESTINY emerge is the golden key. It may take some PRACTICE but I believe it is critical to your LONG term success. So where do you start?

BEFORE you can soak up the ENORMOUS amount of new information that will bring you closer to living your BEST life ~you better grab the cleaning supplies and get ready to remove the old COBWEBS. Reciting affirmations, reading all day long and writing until your hand hurts won’t do the trick unless the SPACE is available~ an OPENING– to propel you to your HIGHEST and greatest PURPOSE. It all starts with QUIETING the mind and RELEASING the blocks (those toxic blocks that exist in all of us) so that space can open and your NEW destiny can EMERGE.

If you have been MEDITATING, practicing YOGA, or engaging in a MINDFULNESS practice then this might be familiar terrain. If not, you can START today by taking SMALL steps and building a routine QUIETING THE MIND” practice. I suggest you start slowly by LOCATING that special place that FEELS right to you and then going to that SPOT (a tree, mountaintop, beach or cozy room in your own home) and practice being totally PRESENT. Answering the following questions might help you connect to the “NOW” and pick your special spot.

1.) Where do I spend time that I feel connected to (think about a location)?
1.) What do I enjoy about being there?
2.) How do I feel when I am __________ (at the beach, under a tree, etc) ?

The next step is go to that SPOT~ (you may want to pick somewhere that you can get to easily EVERYDAY…perhaps start with a park bench, tree, or room in your house)

CLOSE your eyes- follow your BREATHE. Sit comfortably for 5-10 minutes. Your mind may wander and a stream of THOUGHTS may pass (at lightening speed) WATCH them without judgment and then ask you INNER self to bring your thoughts back to the BREATHE. I started this practice just sitting in my CAR but parked under a TREE with my sun roof open (that works for me when I can’t actually sit under the tree directly).

COMMIT to this routine for 30 DAYS in the beginning and then build from there. You
will notice that you will LOVE this time and begin to look forward to it. You will also NOTICE that as the weeks pass you are able to RELEASE some of your old ATTACHMENTS and BELIEFS. Be an OBSERVER of your own MIND- sit QUIETLY and OBSERVE. Quieting the mind allows the quiet STILL voice to emerge and when it does you may hear a WHISPER revealing your own true DESTINY.

Random Acts of Kindness

2009-11-08T05:29:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 36-
How can you bring more JOY into your life?

We can sprinkle JOY into the lives of others and then watch the JOY circle back around and
land directly back into our own life.
Wow...does this really happen? Yes...it actually does and if you are skeptical just try it and see what happens.

Life does give us back exactly what we intentionally and unintentionally think, do, and are to others. The reason why many people do not realize this universal principle is because of the dimension of time. It could take years or lifetimes before the lesson circles back around to us and we don't always connect the dots.

So where do you start if you truly want to make a difference in the lives of others.
You start with small, easy to take steps beginning with random acts of kindness.
Here a just a few suggestions:
1.) Smile at everyone you see and make it a point to smile lovingly at anyone who appears to be having a bad day.
2.) Ask someone a question, then engage them in a conversation you know will make them feel good.
3.) Seek out opportunities where you can offer a hand- open a door for someone, offer a parking attendant a bottle of water or pay the toll for someone behind you on the highway.
4.) Let someone go ahead of you in line at the grocery store or the bank.
5.) Send out secret blessings to people you see throughout the day, especially someone who is impatient, appears angry, or seems agitated.

Set an intention at the beginning of the day to perform an random act of kindness. If you want to feel good, make someone else feel good.

Blessings and Gratitude,
Wendi

Write it Down

2009-11-08T05:20:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 38-

If you are looking to tap into your CREATIVE side and live your highest, truest potential then grab a NOTEBOOK and a PEN and start writing.

You may want to start by keeping a smaller notebook in your purse, car, or briefcase. Then every time you hear a conversation that interests you...WRITE down the interesting points...start making NOTES. Don't worry if it doesn't follow a theme or have a specific purpose, just WRITE.

Keep a notebook in your car and if you hear an interview on the radio, a thought pops in your head, or you see something that catches your attention...WRITE IT DOWN.

You will begin to notice what EXCITES you most and will be drawn to specific subjects. When you write you will find it enjoyable as you think about those topics. The WRITING will become your time to CONNECT to your SOUL and you will NOTICE that the more you write, the more you will ENJOY writing. Then something amazing will happen. You will start to notice you have a heightened AWARENESS of what makes you PASSIONATE and you will start to SEEK it out.

As you write in your JOURNAL or notebook your senses will sharpen and you will SEE clearer and you will HEAR deeper. I invite you to try it for yourself.

One more SMALL step that each of us can take as we create our DESTINY together.

Wendi Blum

Visualization

2009-11-08T04:55:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 37 -

So how do you use VISUALIZATION to create your best life? There are many techniques that can be effective but I will share with you the steps I personally use to manifest in my own life. I BELIEVE everyone can transform their life when they have a strong desire, faith and take action.

CLOSE your physical eyes and open your MIND’S EYE (the third eye known also known as your intuition). You can do this practice anywhere at anytime. You may want to try first thing in the MORNING and then again right before going to BED.

1.) Start by offering GRATITUDE and LOVE…(I believe this is an important step)
2.) Next I use an AFFIRMATION that begins like this “ It is my strongest heart’s desire…(and finish the statement with your intention…)
3.) Then I bring a picture in my mind’s eye of the outcome I desire…I visualize the end result FIRST
4.) I keep that vivid PICTURE in my thoughts as long as I can (some days it is easy and some days it is more challenging) but when other thoughts pop in my mind…I KINDLY ask them to leave and return back to my desired picture.
5.) I bring in all the EMOTIONS that I feel seeing this picture in my mind- all the joy, peace, love, and GRATITUDE.
My GREATEST heart’s desire is to SHARE this process with others. I BELIEVE these techniques fused with PASSION can help shape a NEW WORLD. They certainly have changed my own world….I invite you to experience the POWER of visualization and create your OWN true DESTINY.

Surrender and Let Go-

2009-11-08T04:43:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 35-

LET GO and RELEASE into the FLOW

Have you ever wanted something so much that you put all your energy into it and it didn’t happen? What about something that you focused on so that it wouldn’t happen and it did?

We mindfully put our intentions out into the universe, focus on them and even take action steps toward achieving them so what happens when something doesn’t go our way?

Is it possible to try “too hard”? I believe the key ingredient – the one that dissolves roadblocks…creates miracles….and allows your strongest desires to flow to you is the ability to SURRENDER…release…and let it go.

Here are a few TECHNIQUES to try that have been very helpful in my own life:

1.) Repeat AFFIRMATIONS~I say the following: I surrender and let go of anything that does not serve me as I move closer towards my greatest & highest purpose.
2.) Practice a RITUAL- I go to the beach and visualize my desire being released and surrendered into the flow of the water….I picture my hopes and desires as waves coming in and then going back out into the vast sea of beautiful blue water.
3.) WRITE it out- Take out a piece of paper and write out the following: I surrender and release____________. This can be a very effective tool.
4.) Head out for a WORKOUT and recite your affirmations- saying quieting to yourself over and over again. I release and surrender____________ while you are on the treadmill, stairmaster, or bike. Connecting your MIND and BODY while working out is powerful.
5.) Get an old fashioned TAPE recorder and make a RECORDING of your affirmation and play it right before going to sleep. As I drift into sleep I am releasing and surrendering my thoughts about _____________ to the Universe.

Many Blessing of PEACE, LOVE, AND LIGHT to all!
NAMASTE,
Wendi Blum

The Sound of Music

2009-11-04T04:51:00.001-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 34-

When is your favorite time to listen to music? Whether you play your favorite tunes in the car, gym, or in the shower, all that matters is that you make music a part of your day.

Music is a powerful way to connect. I love to go to a concert when the entire audience is standing up to sing and dance the whole time. YouTube has made access to a variety of new artists and their music much easier and less expensive.

So as we get closer to the end of the year...let's make music a priority. It gives us energy, wakes up our senses and gives us a little slice of heaven right here on earth.

Sing...Dance...Celebrate
Wendi

Turn off the Switch

2009-11-04T04:41:00.000-08:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 32-
Do you automatically reach for the remote control when you walk into the house. Time to take a break and turn off the switch. Although I rarely watched TV, two years ago I made a decision to say goodbye to television completely. When I turned off the television something magical happened, all my senses came alive.

It will feel strange at first since most people are addicted to the noise playing in the background. We use TV to keep us company when we are alone. It takes some time to make the adjustment and get used to the beautiful sound of silence. You won't miss anything, trust me, you will still hear everything you need to know.

Try it for one week and write back and let us know how it is going. If you still can't do it completely, at least try banning the news!

Wendi Blum
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Love Is All There Is!

2009-10-30T07:35:00.001-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 33
Love is in the air. Do you feel it?
If you want more love, then you create it by giving more love. Plain and simple. We already know this but most of the time struggle to apply it. The more you experiment with the process, the more favorable results you will get and then you become more willing to apply it the next time.

It can be challenging to share love with someone who withholds their love but when you do...you will rewarded with more love in your future. It may show up at some later date but the pieces of the puzzle will eventually come together.

At the end of our lives...we realize all there is and always has been is just LOVE.

Believe...Create...Share.
Wendi

Who Are You?

2009-10-30T07:10:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 31-

Today is Halloween, the day you get to dress up and be anyone you choose to be. Isn't that actually true for us each and everyday?

Many of us know deep down inside that we are pretending to be someone that we aren't...a label, a title, a role. Who are we really or more importantly, who do we WANT to be?

Most of us spend more time picking out our Halloween costume than we do picking out our jobs and professions. I certainly did. I picked my college major without much thought and my 20 year corporate career much the same way.

As we close our first 30 days of our 90 day countdown to 2010, let's contemplate the image we project out into the world.
If you want to move towards a new goal...then we can simply start by changing our wardrobe to reflect who we want to be.
Want to teach yoga? Dress like a yogi. Want to be a polished speaker? Wear a well-tailored suit. Tell the world who you are with your image. You conjure up the feeling which draws it closer to you which takes you closer to your true destiny.

Believe...Create...Share

Wendi
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The Power of Affirmations

2009-10-29T20:29:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 30-
The definition of the word "Affirmation"-
A statement asserting the existence or the truth of something.
A positive declaration.

Affirmations are so incredibly powerful but is there a system to using them?
I am a BIG fan of declaring your intention in the form of an affirmation. Phrasing your affirmation in the context of "I am ...." moves the thought to a feeling which then becomes a word and ultimately an action.

It certainly doesn't happen overnight because you have to re-program your mind by repetitively saying the desired affirmation over and over again. In the morning...through out the day...and right before falling asleep, everyday.

Easier said then done. You need discipline and self control to make this work but like everything else, practice makes perfect.
So for the next 60 days of our countdown, I will include a daily affirmation with each post!

Believe...Create...Share!

Wendi
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Have You Laughed Lately?

2009-10-27T04:51:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 28
If you haven't cracked up, laughed out loud, or had a case of the giggles lately, it is time to let it rip!
Laughing feels good and releases endorphins that make you feel good all day and believe it or not...you can fake it until it comes naturally.

How do you start? Commit yourself to one great big belly laugh everyday. Look for the humor in your day and laugh OUT LOUD"! You can say it and claim it!

Need some ideas on how to induce a good chuckle. Start by taking a good look at yourself. Look at all the silly things you do throughout the day like when you drop something, spill something or trip over your own two feet- it can be a real hoot!

Laughter is truly the best medicine...let's add a big dose to our daily routine! Oh...and it is contagious too!

Believe...Create...Share.

Wendi

What's On Your Bookshelf?

2009-10-26T19:41:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 27-

Ok....the leaves have turned into a beautiful array of colors, the air is crisp and cool, and the smell of autumn is in the air, so why not curl up with a GOOD book and soak it all in!

You really get to know a person by looking at their BOOKSHELF! If you are like me, then you are fascinated, CURIOUS, and intrigued by the BOOKS on someone’s personal bookshelf. Ok…so maybe you don’t have a library in your house and can’t keep every book once you have READ it (and you might also get pleasure out of sharing and giving them away) but it is fascinating to see what someone else is reading.

I personally CHOOSE to read a particular book because either someone has RECOMMENDED it to me or I caught an interview with the AUTHOR. Occasionally, I will also pick up a book while browsing around a bookstore but that is the exception and not the rule.
So I am going to post this blog and INVITE the readers to each POST their FAVORITE book in hopes that we can all get lots of suggestions by NEW authors. Let’s fill this virtual bookshelf with inspiring new TITLES and share (and don’t forget to tell us WHY you recommend it)!

My newest books...add your comments with your newest books too!
1.) The 4-Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferriss
2.) Hiring the Heavens by Jean Slatter
3.) Winning in Life Now by Michelle Prince

Believe...Create...Share!
Wendi

Faith...I Believe!

2009-10-26T04:07:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 26

The definition of FAITH: The complete conviction in something without any doubt.
It is a quiet confidence that exudes inside of you that knows no matter what, everything is taken care of and is exactly how it should be (even if you can't see the big picture). It takes so much pressure off of us individually.

Here is one technique that I use to turn the faith switch on...that internal dialogue that takes place when something challenging presents itself. I repeat to myself out loud that I have complete faith that everything will work out for the greatest, highest good for all even though I can not visibly see what that is at the current time. I also write the statement out on a piece of paper- I have complete faith in.... This brings forth a calm feeling that moves throughout my body. Everything is going to be alright.

I also wear a bracelet that says the word "faith" across the top. Whenever I need a little extra reminder, all I have to do is look down at it. I recommend that you write out the word "faith" and keep it on your desk, in your wallet, or by your bedside.

Faith keeps you moving towards CLAIMING your ultimate DESTINY.

Believe, Create, Share.
Wendi

Good Enough

2009-10-25T05:14:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 25

Have you ever been stuck and just can't make a decision? We drag in the opinions of others, hold countless meetings and spend hours thinking about "it". We stay frozen in "No Man's Land" because we think it is a safe hiding place and we won't have to accept any responsibility.

Sometimes you just have to muster up the courage and check it off the list by saying to yourself "that's good enough and move on". Regardless of the decision, once it is made you free up so much wasted energy. Great leaders have a keen ability to make decisions quickly, take responsibility, and move on!

So what decision have you been putting off? Let's finish the year strong with a clean slate. Bring forth your power and let's decide to finally DECIDE!

Believe...Create...Share.

Wendi Blum
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Balance and Harmony

2009-10-25T05:06:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 29-

Do you ever feel that your life is tipped too much to one side and not enough on another? We go gang busters on one particular thing at the expense of something else.

Is it possible to keep things balanced...in perfect harmony? Just by being aware of our tendency to do this brings the opportunity to set an intention to bring balance and harmony into our lives.

So as we wind down the year and start preparing our goals for 2010...business goals, family goals, and our personal developmental goals...let's look at the complete picture.

I divide my entire life up into pie and name each category. Then I fill in individual goals into each section. I have done this for the last 5 years on the first of the year.
This year I am reversing the whole process and am taking the last 90 days of the year to complete my 2010 Personal Action Plan (PAP). I am also writing a mission statement for the year 2010 and picking a one word theme (which I do every year)

Here are my own categories:

1.) God and Spirituality
2.) Family
3.) Business
4.) Health and Fitness
5.) Giving Back-Charity
6.) Growth and Development

Balance and Harmony is one of the important themes I will be incorporating into each section as I continue to fine tune my PAP for 2010.

Believe...Create...Share!
Wendi
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Your Dream Team

2009-10-25T04:47:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 24

You can predict your future just by looking at the company you keep. If you are surrounded by positive, successful people, then your future is going to reflect the same thing.

The reverse is also true. If you have been holding on to a particular relationship personally or professionally because you have settled or have history with them it may be time to cut the cord.

The same way you replace fear with courage...it may be time to replace anyone negative in your life with someone positive. I like this analogy by Martha Beck...Sometimes in life you have to empty your elevator. If it is always full there is no more room for anyone else to get in.

So who is in your elevator? If you have the right companions in YOUR elevator then you will have a much better chance of reaching the top floor.

Believe...Create...Share.
Wendi
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Shine Your Way

2009-10-23T05:45:00.001-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 23

A single candle can shine so much light in a dark room…why not be that candle.
We have so many opportunities throughout the day to shine our light on someone or something just by sharing a smile or saying something kind. Most of us have good intentions but occasionally get distracted by everyday life.

Can you think of 2-3 new situations where you can shine more light? If you notice an impatient driver, someone impolite at the grocery store, or angry at the doctors office…shine some light their way.

I would consider myself for the most part thoughtful and kind but I am going to make a pledge to look for new situations where I can shine more light. The darker the room the more light is needed.

Shine Brightly!

Wendi Blum
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Being Authentic

2009-10-22T18:47:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010 Day 22

How do you know if you are living the life you were meant to live? If you feel complete and whole than you are aligned with your authentic self. Otherwise, if you feel a sense that something is missing in your life then perhaps it is time to pay closer attention to those very faint subtle whispers that we all hear from time to time.

When you move away from thinking with your head to your heart then you become aligned with your true essence.
That is the big difference...when you are living authentically you feel complete certainty, an absolute knowing that you are living your life exactly the way you are suppose to.

Believe...Create...Share.
Wendi Blum

Creating Abundance

2009-10-20T14:00:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 21

Money Consciousnes... A complete knowing that there is enough to go around and everything we ever need is here in abundance. We just need to connect to it.

Many of us have limiting beliefs around money and aren't even aware of it. I believe affirmations are powerful so I thought I would share my own Abundance Affirmation.

I attract ABUNDANCE in every area of my life~
I have UNLIMITED resources and money is PLENTIFUL~
Money FLOWS easily into my life~
I am tapped into the INFINITE supply of money energy~
I attract money CONSISTENTLY and EASILY~
I love the feeling that financial FREEDOM gives me~
I SHARE my resources with others and generously donate, contribute, and
GIVE my money to those that are in need~
I have many SOURCES of income flowing directly to me~
I am surrounded by financial RESOURCES in all areas of my life~
I enjoy the FEELING of manifesting abundance~
I POSITIVELY receive the monetary gifts the Universe provides for me~
Everything I touch turns to GOLD~
I happily spend money on others and LOVE the feeling of being able to do so~
I am GRATEFUL that I attract unlimited financial resources~

Wishing you success and prosperity as we count down the last 90 days of 2009.

Believe...Create...Inspire.
Wendi

Be Daring

2009-10-20T04:04:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 20

What would you do if you knew you could not fail?
Imagine all the UNLIMITED possibilities…you could probably make a list of 100’s of things. So what stops us from trying? It is our fear…of failing or of not doing it well enough. We put more demands on ourselves then the outside world ever would.

When did we become conditioned to think that we had to do things perfect?
Once we are willing to accept that anything worth doing might even be worth doing it badly- our options widen.

So proudly think of something that you might enjoy but may not be good at and “go for it”. Grab a tennis racket, golf club, paint a picture, start cooking exotic meals, sing, dance, write, bike, go for a swim, and just go for it.

Make a list of 10 things that you have never even attempted but thought looked like fun...and start checking off the list. Then come back and share with us your new adventure and inspire others!

Believe...Create...Share...if you Dare!
Wendy Blum
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Bring Out Your Creative Side

2009-10-19T05:12:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 19

Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up.
Pablo Picasso

Whether you consider yourself to be creative or not, deep down inside of all of us...we ARE creative. It may be buried and our switch might not have been turned on for awhile but trust me it is there.

So how do you turn the switch back on and tap into your creative side?
In the book “The Complete Artist’s Way, Julia Cameron talks about the power of writing first thing in the morning. I am a big fan of the book and believe that silence paired with writing first thing in the morning is the key that will unlock creativity’s door.

I personally like using beautiful metallic pens and attractive notebooks for writing since their beauty draws me in. It may take some time to get into the routine but like anything else worthwhile you have to make a commitment and take ACTION.
Draw, paint, sing, dance, write, or grab your camera and take pictures of a beautiful sunset. There are so many different ways to activate all the creativity that lives inside of you.

Believe...Create...Share.
Wendy
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The Power of Forgiveness

2009-10-17T18:20:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 18

Why would you forgive someone that hurt you or made your life difficult? What if when you forgive someone you actually set yourself FREE. Does it REALLY work and how? Yeap, it is totally TRUE.

When you hold on to anger, resentment, or blame (even just a little bit) you actually own the emotion along with the outcome. That feeling is alive and living inside of YOU. Can you imagine what something like that does inside of our bodies. Maybe it activates a switch that causes unhealthy cells to start replicating in your body. The negative emotion is toxic...plain and simple.

So how do you get rid of it? You were given free will and the ability to choose your response to every situation. It will take some work but if you set an intention, ask for help, and release all those feelings the reward is HUGE.

Believe, Create, Share!
Wendy
Your Reinvention Connection
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Mental Toughness

2009-10-17T10:51:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 17

At one point or another in our lives we are all going to be blind sided and knocked down by an enormous life challenge.
We will just be going along and then WAM...we get hit with a very difficult event, situation, or problem.
There is just no way of getting around that simple fact. It will happen eventually to each one of us. Sure, some people seem to get hit more often and harder than others but it will happen to all of us to some degree.

One of my favorite sayings is "The time to fix the roof is when it is sunny out" and this holds true here. I am a total optimist but I believe that you should prepare as much as possible for a variety of different "what if" scenarios. My philosphy is to "Expect the best and plan for the worst".

I believe mental toughness is critical. It is important to train physically and mentally to handle obstacles. I learned this in my early 20's when I realized that my Dad was battling cancer and probably wouldn't be around to see me hit 30. I started my mental preparation and was mindful of what little time I had left with him. Yes, it was still hard but I had a chance to enjoy what was left while preparing for the inevitable.

Mental toughness takes work but is achievable if we put in the time and effort.
Your Reinvention Connection,
Wendy
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The Pot of Gold at the End of Our Rainbow

2009-10-12T18:34:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 13th

Are you seamlessly aligned...Do your thoughts match up with your feelings? Do your feelings match up with your words?
Do they all tie in with your actions? If they do then great, you are creating and manifesting everything you desire but if they don't then your beliefs, perceptions, and subconscious mind is actually holding you back.

For example, we say we want more money, a new job, or a great relationship but if deep down inside we don't really think we are worthy, or that it is really possible then we are sending out mixed signals...our conscious mind and our subconscious mind are not aligned.

The good news is that we can reprogram our mind...change our thoughts...and slowly peel away all the layers that hold us back...all those self limiting beliefs. Step one: Expanding our awareness. Step two: Starting the reversal process. Step three: Going inward and doing "the work".

Together we can make a few adjustments and tweak the blueprint of our life so that we can cross to the other side of our rainbow and reach the pot of gold that is there waiting for us.

Wendy Blum
Your Reinvention Connection
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Our Life Force- The Breath

2009-10-12T05:33:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 12

Breathing...many of us take it for granted but have you really thought about it.
This is our life line...our life force...our connection to living yet we spend so little time thinking about how we do it.

I personally had a ahaa moment a few years ago and decided to change the way I prioritize my day.
Breathing properly and with intention has risen to the top of my to do list. Here are just a few of the enormous benefits:

Breathing feels good, gives us energy, and helps us relax.
Breathing is also essential for:
1.) Relieving stress
2.) Reducing pain
3.) Eliminating fear
4.) Dissolving anger

I will be posting much more around this topic in the future. I believe that by using the power of your breath you can profoundly enhance your life.

Wendy
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Rest, Relax and Recharge Your Battery

2009-10-11T07:58:00.000-07:00

Countdown to 2010- Day 11

Do you give yourself a chance to rest, relax, and recharge your battery?

For some of us, we just have difficulty slowing down, turning off the computer and saying “no” to working over the weekend.

Sure, there are times when we need to finish a project, attend a meeting/seminar, or catch up with paperwork on the weekend but that should be the exception and not the rule. If you really give it some thought…
it becomes quite obvious why we need an " official day" off.
We need time to replenish our souls, take care of our bodies, and expose our minds to something opposite from what we normally do during the week.

For example, if you are a teacher, coach, or salesperson , heading out to the beach to take a surf lesson stretches and expands the way you think. We are forced out of our normal thought patterns and we learn to create new and interesting ones.
Ok..so surfing isn’t exactly resting, but it certainly is restorative. So during the last 90 days of the year as we kick it in to finish the year strong, let’s try to keep our Sundays “work free". Whether you chose to spend the day in prayer, with family & friends or doing absolutely nothing, let’s dedicate our Sunday to relaxation, rest and rejuvenation!

Enjoy your Sunday...
Wendi
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Countdown to 2010- Day 10

2009-10-10T11:10:00.000-07:00

Make a Difference in the World

Can one person really make a DIFFERENCE? It all starts with the power of ONE and multiplies from there. We all want to volunteer, make charitable donations, and help others but not all of us take ACTION. With one foot on the gas petal and the other on the break… nothing actually happens. This same thing is happening in other areas of your life.

Last night I went to the U2 concert and with a record crowd of 100,000 people I was reminded how the Universe REWARDS those that are most generous with their time, heart and money. Throughout the concert there were so many beautiful underlying MESSAGES to the audience to get involved and at the very least become aware of how collectively we can make a DIFFERENCE .

There is a Universal principle that happens when you are CHARITABLE.
What ever you give comes back to you many times over. Not only does the person who gives receives just by the act of giving…an incredible GOOD feeling is gifted to them immediately but they also RECEIVE more good fortune sometime in their future.

So I encourage you to take action today. This single step will change the course of your life…GUARANTEED.

Wendi
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Clearing the Clutter- Countdown to 2010

2009-10-09T05:38:00.000-07:00

90 Days of Transformation: Day 9:

How good do you feel when you organize your closet...your office...or your briefcase?
I personally feel INCREDIBLE. So where does all the clutter come from,
why do we hold on to it, and how can we get rid of it?
Does clutter impact our relationships, careers, and lives? You already know
the answer to this. Sure it does!
Everything we are is a reflection of our subconscious mind. Before we can
achieve our full potential we have to get really honest with ourselves and ask some tough questions. So why not start today?
This is the perfect day to finally declare your commitment to purge all the extra
"stuff" that you have been holding on to... both internally and externally.
Releasing and letting go of the old stuff makes room for prosperity and success to flow into your life.

Countdown to 2010- Day 8

2009-10-08T05:19:00.000-07:00

I LOVE all the responses and interest to our end of the year countdown!
We can accomplish so much more when we join forces together...so let's ramp this thing up and finish the year STRONG!

When we set goals we have been condtioned to "reach for the stars" and think BIG but
then when we have a set back it is so incredibly hard to get back our MOJO back.
So let's start really small...and take BABY steps towards a smaller goal and then we can re-adjust them as we go...RAISING the bar everytime we hit a milestone (like rock climbing...we keep reaching higher and higher).

So, I have broken down my personal goals into three catagories (M-B-S) and then within each one continue to break them down even smaller into weekly and daily goals.

Today's goal: Mind, Body, Spirit (M-B-S)
Mind: No TV - Listen to one educational podcast today
Body: AM- Vitamins -PM Run on the beach
Spirit: AM- 30 minute meditation- PM saying gratitude prayer before going to sleep

My Destiny today is to BE STRONG, POWERFUL, AND FEARLESS!
Wendy
Your Reinvention Connection

Countdown to 2010

2009-10-07T06:31:00.000-07:00

Transformation in 90 days

Day 7 out of 90

Can we do it? Can we really completely TRANSFORM our lives in 90 days?
Can we create our own DESTINY?
If you think you can...then you can
and if you think you can't...
then you can't (both are right).

So, I INVITE you to take the journey with me.
I believe we will never reach our final destination because we can
keep moving the bar HIGHER and creating NEW goals.
To receive fulfillment in life we need to be
moving forward, growing, and evolving.

We all make New Year's Resolutions at the beginning of the year.
Why not reverse it? Why not finish the year strong?
We are in our last quarter of the year so let's kick it into high gear.
While everyone else is waiting to start fresh at the beginning of the year why don't do the opposite?
Let's do it together!

What 3 goals are you going to achieve today? Pick one in each category and design your own DESTINY.
Mind, Body and Spirit.

Creating and Living my Destiny!
Wendy

Starting Your Day

2009-09-23T06:02:00.000-07:00

How we START our day is so important.
We are given a clean slate (an empty canvas) and we get to
DESIGN a brand new picture...a BRAND new day...each and EVERY day!
The BEGINNING of the day is when it begins.
Most of us wake up on auto pilot and run through our DAILY routine.
Even what we THINK about is on automatic pilot.
We get up, make coffee, brush our teeth and jump into the shower...
We even turn on the TV just to add background noise (more on this at a later date)

What if we spend the first hour or two in the morning in complete SILENCE...

You can CHOOSE to meditate, write in a journal, pray, reflect, or breathe (or ALL of the above!)
You can make a few changes SMALL changes that will greater IMPROVE the quality of your life.

Believe...Create....Inspire!
Wendy
Your Reinvention Connection

If this is a stretch for you...then START with just 5 minutes...and build from there.
What matters is that you take the first step. Each day is filled with ENDLESS possibilities...
fill yours with the INTENTION to be the BEST of you!

Rituals: Can You Reprogram Your Mind?

2009-08-30T19:59:00.000-07:00

Rituals

Can you REPROGRAM your mind? Some people seem to do it and the rest of us just make lots of excuses. So what is the DIFFERENCE?

Is it our circumstances? Is it our parents? Is it our spouse, children, religion, or financial situation?
What is stopping us from living our BEST life? Maybe…just maybe it is US?

Hmmmm, how much time have you spent asking and exploring inside your core-DEEP INSIDE your core…asking these kinds of QUESTIONS?
Do you REALLY want to feel good, have satisfying relationships, love your job, and make a difference? Do you REALLY? Is it your deepest HEART’S DESIRE?
Is it your PASSION?

These are my 3 questions-
1.) Is ANYONE else doing it?
2.) Do they have obstacles and CHALLENGES? (I don’t know about you but families like the Kennedy’s really inspire me- they continue to forge ahead with grace and dignity regardless of their circumstance) Is there someone in your life that inspires you- they are your role model- MIRROR what you see!
3.) What is REALLY stopping me? I craft a plan in my head- because the answer is always it can be done if someone else has done it.

So what’s it going to take?
4 Questions – How to make it happen!
1.) Do I have all the skills? Ok…how can create a RITUAL to get me going in the right direction? Do I need to read a book (or 20 books on the subject?). Ok…maybe I don’t have time to read but could listen to a CD in the car? Maybe…I can listen to a podcast at the gym? When you want something bad enough….you find a way.
2.) Do I have mental CLARITY and TOUGHNESS? What RITUAL can I create here for myself? Is it a mantra that I will say everyday? Maybe I will write it out in a journal? Maybe I go a kick boxing class and that’s what works for me. Ask yourself…how do I create this?
3.) Do I know the RIGHT people? If your answer is no…then how do you meet them? Who do you want and need to know to move you closer in the direction of your destiny? Create a RITUAL and commit to meeting 1 new person everyday and be open to their experiences and gifts. Find a community of like minded people and join.
4.) Do I feel good PHYSICALLY? If your answer was no…then the first
RITUAL you need to create involves exercise. Create a routine to get your blood flowing and oxygen into the cells of your body or else you won’t have the stamina or the desire to keep going. THIS IS CRITICAL!
5.) Did I ask the Divine, HIGHER POWER, or God for help and guidance? Create a RITUAL everyday of expressing GRATITUDE and LOVE.

Namaste,
Wendy Blum
Your Health and Wellness Coach
954-993-1211

2009-07-27T17:02:00.000-07:00

LET GO and RELEASE into the FLOW
Have you ever wanted something so much that you put all your energy into it and it didn’t happen? What about something that you focused on so that it wouldn’t happen and it did?

We mindfully put our intentions out into the universe, focus on them and even take action steps toward achieving them so what happens when something doesn’t go our way?

Is it possible to try “too hard”? I believe the key ingredient – the one that dissolves roadblocks…creates miracles….and allows your strongest desires to flow to you is the ability to SURRENDER…release…and let it go.

Here are a few TECHNIQUES to try that have been very helpful in my own life:

1.) Repeat AFFIRMATIONS~I say the following: I surrender and let go of anything that does not serve the greatest & highest purpose of the universe.
2.) Practice a RITUAL- I go to the beach and visualize my desire being released and surrendered into the flow of the water….I picture my hopes and desires as waves coming in and then going back out into the vast sea of beautiful blue water.
3.) WRITE it out- Take out a piece of paper and write out the following: I surrender and release____________. This can be a very effective tool.
4.) Head out for a WORKOUT and recite your affirmations- saying quieting to yourself over and over again. I release and surrender____________ while you are on the treadmill, stairmaster, or bike. Connecting your MIND and BODY while working out is powerful.
5.) Get an old fashioned TAPE recorder and make a RECORDING of your affirmation and play it right before going to sleep. As I drift into sleep I am releasing and surrendering my thoughts about _____________ to the Universe.

Many Blessing of PEACE, LOVE, AND LIGHT to all!
NAMASTE,
Wendy Blum
Transformational Life Coach, Yoga, Author
954-993-1211

Visualization

2009-07-11T16:44:00.000-07:00

We have heard a lot of buzz about this topic ~ and we all know someone (including ourselves) that have tried this technique and have come up short changed. So let’s take a look at the NUTS and BOLTS~
Why does this work for some of us and not others?

First you may want to answer a few questions?
1.) Is this my truest, deepest, HEART’S desire?
2.) Is this FOR my greatest and HIGHEST good (and the universe)?
3.) Am I PREPARED (really prepared) for the outcome or is there still some prep work that I need to do before I can move forward (releasing blockages, etc)?

OK…If you answered YES to all of the questions above then this process may take you to where you want to go…but notice I say MAY take you there. There is no linear line that will take you from point A to point B but the odds are in your favor, and since there is no LACK and the universe is TIMELESS….It is my BELIEF that you will arrive exactly where you are suppose to be~ so let’s align our thoughts, hearts, and souls~ sprinkle in complete FAITH~ and seal it with our INTENTIONS and watch
as our true DESTINY unfolds.

So how do we use VISUALIZATION to create our best LIFE? There are many techniques that can work but I will share with you the steps I personally use to manifest in my own life. Because I am speaking from personal experience, I can only offer you techniques that I have learned (from many inspiring teachers) that I BELIEVE can transform your life (but you have to BELIEVE for them to work for YOU).

CLOSE your physical eyes and open your MIND’S EYE (the third eye known also known as your intuition). You can do this practice anywhere at anytime. You may want to try first thing in the MORNING and then again right before going to BED.

1.) Start by offering GRATITUDE and LOVE…(I believe this is an important step)
2.) Next I use an AFFIRMATION that begins like this “ It is my strongest heart’s desire…(and finish the statement with your intention…)
3.) Then I bring a picture in my mind’s eye of the outcome I desire…I visualize the end result FIRST
4.) I keep that vivid PICTURE in my thoughts as long as I can (some days it is easy and some days it is more challenging) but when others thoughts pop in my mind…I KINDLY ask them to leave and return back to my desired picture.
5.) I bring in all the EMOTIONS that I feel seeing this picture in my mind- all the joy, peace, love, and GRATITUDE.
My GREATEST heart’s desire is to SHARE this process with others. I BELIEVE these techniques fused with PASSION can help shape a NEW WORLD. They certainly have changed my own world….I invite you to experience the POWER of visualization and create your OWN true DESTINY.

Quieting the Mind

2009-07-03T07:54:00.000-07:00

Preparing the mind so that you can uncover your HEART’S desire and let your true DESTINY emerge is the golden key. It may take some PRACTICE but I believe it is critical to your LONG term success. So where do you start?

BEFORE you can soak up the ENORMOUS amount of new information that will bring you closer to living your BEST life ~you better grab the cleaning supplies and get ready to remove the old COBWEBS. Reciting affirmations, reading all day long and writing until your hand hurts won’t do the trick unless the SPACE is available~ an OPENING– to propel you to your HIGHEST and greatest PURPOSE. It all starts with QUIETING the mind and RELEASING the blocks (those toxic blocks that exist in all of us) so that space can open and your NEW destiny can EMERGE.

If you have been MEDITATING, practicing YOGA, or engaging in a MINDFULNESS practice then this might be familiar terrain. If not, you can START today by taking SMALL steps and building a routine QUIETING THE MIND” practice. I suggest you start slowly by LOCATING that special place that FEELS right to you and then going to that SPOT (a tree, mountaintop, beach or cozy room in your own home) and practice being totally PRESENT. Answering the following questions might help you connect to the “NOW” and pick your special spot.

1.) Where do I spend time that I feel connected to (think about a location)?
1.) What do I enjoy about being there?
2.) How do I feel when I am __________ (at the beach, under a tree, etc) ?

The next step is go to that SPOT~ (you may want to pick somewhere that you can get to easily EVERYDAY…perhaps start with a park bench, tree, or room in your house)

CLOSE your eyes- follow your BREATHE. Sit comfortably for 5-10 minutes. Your mind may wander and a stream of THOUGHTS may pass (at lightening speed) WATCH them without judgment and then ask you INNER self to bring your thoughts back to the BREATHE. I started this practice just sitting in my CAR but parked under a TREE with my sun roof open (that works for me when I can’t actually sit under the tree directly).

COMMIT to this routine for 30 DAYS in the beginning and then build from there. You
will notice that you will LOVE this time and begin to look forward to it. You will also NOTICE that as the weeks pass you are able to RELEASE some of your old ATTACHMENTS and BELIEFS. Be an OBSERVER of your own MIND- sit QUIETLY and OBSERVE. Quieting the mind allows the quiet STILL voice to emerge and when it does you may hear a WHISPER revealing your own true DESTINY.

Write it Down

2009-06-21T07:57:00.000-07:00

If you are looking to tap into your CREATIVE side and live your highest, truest potential then grab a NOTEBOOK and a PEN and start writing.

You may want to start by keeping a smaller notebook in your purse, car, or briefcase. Then every time you hear a conversation that interests you...WRITE down the interesting points...start making NOTES. Don't worry if it doesn't follow a theme or have a specific purpose, just WRITE.

Keep a notebook in your car and if you hear an interview on the radio, a thought pops in your head, or you see something that catches your attention...WRITE IT DOWN.

You will begin to notice what EXCITES you most and will be drawn to specific subjects. When you write you will find it enjoyable as you think about those topics. The WRITING will become your time to CONNECT to your SOUL and you will NOTICE that the more you write, the more you will ENJOY writing. Then something amazing will happen. You will start to notice you have a heightened AWARENESS of what makes you PASSIONATE and you will start to

SEEK it out.

As you write in your JOURNAL or notebook your senses will sharpen and you will SEE clearer and you will HEAR deeper. I invite you to try it for yourself.

One more SMALL step that each of us can take as we create our DESTINY together.

Reinventing Yourself

2009-06-18T05:04:00.000-07:00

How many of us are walking around thinking that we are destined for "something" but not sure what?

We are going through the motions of life with a yearning and sense that we should be doing something else.

Millions of us are experiencing the same feelings~ and I believe the time is now to reinvent ourselves...So let's talk and take this journey TOGETHER...

It is NEVER too late to be who you might of been~unknown

So where do we start? Since we are composed of the mind, body and spirit, why not breakdown each one and explore.

The journey of 1000 miles starts with a SINGLE step~ Lao Tzu

Let's take the first step...SMALL step and see where we end up...TOGETHER.

Our mind and our thoughts are a great place to start. First we make the commitment and pledge to ourselves that we deserve to live our best life and to live our true life's purpose.

An AFFIRMATION is a very effective tool and I suggest completing the following sentence by WRITING this out on a piece of paper and posting it where you can see it throughout the day.

I CHOOSE to live my best life through discovering my life's purpose. I CHOOSE to be open and allow my creativity to flow to me. I CHOOSE success and abundance.

CHOOSE to make it a GREAT day!

Ok..we just took the first SMALL step together and are on our way.

I would be honored to have you bookmark, subscribe and share this blog with others. Our daily posts will motivate, inspire and keep you company on your journey to discovering your life's purpose.

Happiness Survey~ Free gift for your time

2009-06-17T06:28:00.000-07:00

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Happiness Survey

Thank you for taking the time to fill out our survey.

Everyone that completes this survey will receive a free gift~

Name:___________________________________________________

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1.) 1.) On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate your happiness/contentment at work? (10 being very happy)

2.) 2.) Have you thought about doing something else? (yes or no)

3.) 3.) Have you thought about launching your new business idea while still working at your other job? (yes or no)

4.) 4.) If you have something specific that you would like to be doing- we would love to know what that is?

5.) 5.) How often do you think of reinventing yourself or working in another profession? (on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being all the time)

6.) 6.) Have you taken any steps towards a new career or business? If so what steps?

7.) 7.) What age do you think you will fully retire?

I give authorization to use the results of this survey for analysis and publication:

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Stepping Stones~ Learn Something New Everyday

2009-06-15T18:29:00.000-07:00

COMMIT to LEARN Something NEW Everyday

Ok…we can chug along in life…in a trance watching everyone else around us accomplish the things we dream about OR we can kick it into high gear….

And take baby steps towards creating an EXTRAORDINARY life.

Exploring….the way we LEARN about a new city or country:

First we have the THOUGHT and decide we to want to travel and visit someplace new...Then WE DECIDE where we want to go (based on a picture, article, or story a friend shares with us...We then ASK QUESTIONS…What is it like there? What was your favorite part? What about it didn't you like? Was it difficult to get there? Then we start to PLAN…maybe pick up a ROAD MAP….we pull out our calendars…pick a date. Then we might head to bookstore and pick BOOKS from someone who has been there…or look it up on the Internet and just JUMP on a plane and go to the city-

A new hobby…career….or life is built just like that.

One small step at a time….evaluating all the opportunities- BRAINSTORMING…asking QUESTIONS…meeting NEW people…READING everything you can on the subject…going to conferences…WORKSHOPS…surf the Internet.

We seek out to LEARN something new everyday

We COMMIT to the learning process….Everywhere we go we are in our classroom and everyone we meet becomes our teacher.

Most important we enjoy the process…we are growing…and the more we grow… The more fulfilled we become…

I have promised to share my own journey… each step along the way in creating my own DESTINY~

I have chosen to be a lifelong student…along the way…discovering what I enjoy learning most…what types of people I am drawn to...where I most enjoy spending my time…and along the way I am watching my life expand…my heart opening wider…and more joy pouring in.

I invite you to share my journey….

Staying CALM and CENTERED-The MIRACLE of the breathe

2009-06-12T05:12:00.000-07:00

What are the benefits if you can master this skill...

HUGH...I don't think anyone would argue with that.

So how much time do we spend learning how to develop this skill?

What if you could stay centered and calm throughout your day...

Do you think your business and relationships would flourish?

I have seen this work in my own life and believe it would work in yours too!

It is simple...and all you have to do is invest 15 minutes in the morning and then 5 minutes again 2-3 times during the day.

It is all about the BREATHE...

simple breathing techniques...and anyone and everyone can use them.

1.) Rhythmic Breathing...

Sit comfortably....crossed leg position....(or seated in a chair)

Then inhale...through your nose....slowly...while counting to 6....hold for one count

Then exhale...through your nose....slowly...while counting to 6.....

REPEAT for 10 rounds...

2.) Step Breathing...

Inhale...slowly....while counting to 4

Exhale...slowly...while counting to 4

next: increase your count to 5

then increase your count to 6, 7, 8

REPEAT for 10 rounds

3.) Normal slow breathing with your eyes closed....bring to your mind's eye your intention to stay calm and centered all day....repeating the affirmation over and over again for 5 minutes...

You are now open to receiving all the good the universe has to offer~

Namaste~

Wendy

Random Acts of Kindness

2009-06-08T08:40:00.000-07:00

How can you bring more JOY into your life?

We can sprinkle JOY into the lives of others and then watch the JOY circle back around and

land directly back into our own life.

Wow...does this really happen? Yes...it actually does and if you are skeptical just try it and see what happens.

So where do you start?

Just recently an incredible thing happened to me...

I was in the drive thru at Starbucks on the corner of Federal Hwy and Davie Blvd in Ft. Lauderdale, Florida and the car before mine bought my coffee~ no reason~ and just drove off.

I then bought the next car their coffee and the domino effect lasted for the next 12 cars.

Amazing~ and I felt so good all day.

Another thing happened too~ every time I drive past that location (weeks later) I still think about the random act of kindness that a nameless and faceless person started that day and it triggers a good feeling that I carry on for the rest of the day (and then share with others)

I often go back to that Starbucks and buy a cup of coffee for the car behind mine.

I get SO MUCH JOY from doing something so simple~ and it IS SO CONTAGIOUS.

I invite you to add some more joy into your life~ AND COME SHARE WITH US!

just do something kind and thoughtful for someone else~

Believe...Create...Share...Inspire!

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Becoming a Yoga Teacher

2009-04-16T16:53:00.000-07:00

Ever since I was a young girl I would daydream about dancing and owning a dance studio. I grew up loving dance and yoga but then life happened. In college I had to make a choice between majoring in dance or business and you can probably guess which one won out. So here many years later, successfully working in the business world but with a yearning to become a devoted yoga and dance student.

I have been taking yoga as a student for the last 10 years but I my deepest hearts desire was to take it to another level. Then it finally hit! I can be a yoga teacher and I can do it now because there is nothing holding me back. The only thing holding me back was the story I had been telling myself that said I would do it later when I retire...but why not NOW? So in one split second, it all changed and I am on my way to becoming a yoga teacher.

Wow, it's that easy. All you have to do is to decide and take action. When you finally make the decision the Universe opens up and sends the "how" and delivers it right on your doorstep.

I woke up one morning and received an invitation to a 200 hour yoga certification course in my email from someone I have never met. The course was starting the very next day and the instructor was teaching an open yoga class right before the training. So I took the chance and went to the class and I knew instantly that it was right...My Destiny.

Yes, it is hard work. Yes, it is a commitment. Yes, I had to use savings. Yes, I have given up every weekend for the next 3 months. Yes, I am going to be a Yoga Teacher.

What is Your Destiny? Believe...Create...Share...Inspire!

What is inspires you?

2008-09-13T11:33:00.000-07:00

What inspires you?
I am very excited about the blogging world. What a great way to connect to each other.

The world can be seen through many shades of lenses and I am on my endless search on how to be part of the evolution of positive change. I am passionate about spreading positive messages and would love to hear from anyone inspired to share...what inspires them?
This week I was inspired by two friends...MIchele and Linda and would love to share their stories.

My friend, Michele and I go way back to our college days. We have stayed close even though I had my children in my 20's and Michele had her son at 40. Over the years we have shared dreams, laughter and tears but this past week Michele called concerned with results from a physical that "looked suspicious". A day earlier another friend of mine, Linda, someone that I have grown very close to, went with her 40 something year old husband to the doctor for a routine exam and was told that "something looked suspicious". Well...both Linda and Michele, two friends with two similar health alerts were faced with lots of tests (blood tests, scans, biospies). I am empowered with the strength and courage of both these women. Everyday meant a visit to another physician or lab and an opportunity to be grateful for early detection of whatever the challenge would bring. Linda and Michele made a choice to be positive. Both have the best of the worst of outcomes and they will both continue to inspire the people they touch. Please share your inspiring story...